{"id":397,"date":"2025-10-27T17:00:07","date_gmt":"2025-10-27T21:00:07","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/commons.princeton.edu\/migration-reporting2025\/?p=397"},"modified":"2025-11-07T15:43:21","modified_gmt":"2025-11-07T20:43:21","slug":"profile-the-second-odyssey-an-eight-year-quest-for-belonging","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/commons.princeton.edu\/migration-reporting2025\/profile-the-second-odyssey-an-eight-year-quest-for-belonging\/","title":{"rendered":"Profile The Second Odyssey: An Eight-Year Quest for Belonging"},"content":{"rendered":"<h3><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">On a gray Tuesday evening in Berlin\u2019s Neuk\u00f6lln district, the living room of the <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Blue House<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400\"> was filled with a cozy light and the murmur of diverse people. A dozen people gather around a long table: refugees, volunteers, and students practicing English. Sam Alabiad smiled engagingly at everyone around him.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">He was excited to share his story after I introduced myself and told him I was a student journalist. His expressions did not betray the challenges he\u2019d faced, which I\u2019d come to learn as the night progressed.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">When Sam arrived in Berlin in 2017, he was thirty years old, trained in linguistics, and already twice displaced. In 2016, he had fled Syria for Turkey, hoping to find safety and academic work. \u201cIt was unstable,\u201d he recalled. \u201cAfter the <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.aljazeera.com\/news\/2022\/7\/15\/turkeys-failed-coup-attempt-explainer\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">coup attempt<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">, we were always worried, are they going to deport us?\u201d He\u2019s referring to the 2016 failed coup attempt against Erdogan and the crackdown on civilians that ensued. A friend in Germany told him to try for a research visa. \u201cI didn\u2019t want to cross the sea. I didn\u2019t want to risk it,\u201d he said, about those fleeing to Greece in flimsy rafts.\u00a0 So he found a short-term research post in Arabic linguistics, packed his degree, and flew to Berlin.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">The visa lasted six months. After it expired, <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/asylumineurope.org\/reports\/country\/turkiye\/content-international-protection\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Turkey\u2019s laws<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400\"> forbade him from returning for five years. \u201cI was stuck,\u201d he said simply. \u201cSo I applied for asylum.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">What followed was not a single moment of arrival, but a slow, grinding negotiation with bureaucracy. Germany\u2019s asylum process can take months or years; in Sam\u2019s case, it took eight. He learned that even refugees with degrees and language skills face systemic barriers: recredentialing requirements, certification processes, and waiting lists. \u201cIf you want to teach in Germany,\u201d he said, \u201cyou must teach two subjects. I could teach English, but not only English. They told me, \u2018You need to do another bachelor\u2019s degree.\u2019 Another three years of study. I thought; Why?\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">When I spoke to Philipp Jaschke, a policy researcher at Germany\u2019s <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/iab.de\/en\/employee\/jaschke-philipp\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Institute for Employment Research<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">, he nodded knowingly at Sam\u2019s story. <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">\u201cAnd it&#8217;s often hard for, especially for refugees, but generally for migrants, because Germany is, I would say it&#8217;s unique with this vocational education system. If people apply, often they get a decision and then okay, \u2018we approve part of your qualification.\u2019\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">\u201cAnd so they tell you you need to prove practice in this and that and that and that and you need to go to school to learn in theory this and this and this. So it&#8217;s super complicated.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">In other words, integration in Germany isn\u2019t only about learning the language; it\u2019s about navigating institutional bureaucracy. \u201cEverything here is on paper,\u201d Sam said. \u201cLetters, letters, letters. If you don\u2019t know the language, you can\u2019t survive the bureaucracy.\u201d He relied on friends to translate documents and accompany him to offices, each visit another performance of legitimacy: am I educated enough, fluent enough, deserving enough to settle here?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">He spent three years studying German intensively. \u201cFrom zero to C1,\u201d he said, shaking his head, referring to the European <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.europassitalian.com\/blog\/cefr-levels\/#:~:text=A1%20Language%20Level-,A2%20elementary,in%20areas%20of%20immediate%20need.\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">grade system<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400\"> for languages. \u201cThree years of my life were just that.\u201d When the pandemic hit, Berlin shut down. Classes went online; language schools closed; temporary teaching gigs vanished. \u201cTwo years without a job,\u201d he said. \u201cI was just at home.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Finally, after six years of uncertainty, Sam found a stable position teaching English at a private school. \u201cNow, when I apply for a job,\u201d he said, smiling faintly, \u201cthey actually call me for an interview.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">For many in Berlin\u2019s refugee community, the harder struggle comes not in the classroom but at home; literally. Housing in Berlin is a battle, even for Germans. For immigrants, it\u2019s <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.dw.com\/en\/germany-struggles-to-house-refugees\/a-66332089#:~:text=Especially%20in%20areas%20where%20the%20housing%20market,These%20reception%20centers%20also%20have%20capacity%20limits.\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">worse<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">. \u201cI spent two years searching for a flat,\u201d Sam said. \u201cEvery day, every night. You apply, you go to viewings, you bring all your papers.\u201d At open houses, he\u2019d line up with dozens of others, clutching a folder: passport, residence permit, bank statements, a government letter guaranteeing rent payments. \u201cAnd still,\u201d he said, \u201cthey see \u2018job center\u2019 on the paper and say, \u2018They won\u2019t give you the flat.\u2019\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Berlin\u2019s rental market has become so competitive that underground brokers offer \u201c<\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.wsj.com\/economy\/housing\/how-one-major-world-capitalsbid-to-boost-affordable-housing-backfired-dc3098c8\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">black market<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">\u201d placements: sometimes more than \u20ac5,000. \u201cI know people who paid under the table just to get a flat,\u201d Sam said. \u201cThe government knows it exists. But what can they do? People are desperate.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">He eventually found his first real apartment thanks to a German friend\u2019s mother, who vouched for him in person. \u201cShe told the landlord, \u2018If he doesn\u2019t pay, I will,\u2019\u201d Sam said. \u201cThat\u2019s how I got the flat.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">The loneliness was harder to solve. \u201cPeople say Berlin is open, multicultural,\u201d Sam said. \u201cThat\u2019s true: but only if you\u2019re a party person. If you like bars, nightclubs, you\u2019ll find people. I\u2019m not that person.\u201d For him, community meant the language caf\u00e9s, the Sunday meetups, the <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Blue House<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">, where volunteers and refugees trade words and stories. \u201cThis is my social life,\u201d he said. \u201cGerman people are not very open. Even your neighbors; you don\u2019t know them. They live in their own bubbles.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">He laughed softly. \u201cIn England, they say people are cold. But the Germans are another level. To grab a coffee with a friend, you must schedule one month in advance.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Today, Sam\u2019s life is stable on paper: full-time job, apartment, friends, legal status. But stability, he said, isn\u2019t the same as ease. The journey to Berlin was just the start of a years-long fight to truly take root and feel at home in Berlin. In the Blue House, where volunteers and newcomers trade stories in slow English, he finds a gome. Here, no one asks for papers. They ask where you\u2019re from, what brought you here, and how you\u2019re doing this week. People arrive from everywhere, Afghanistan, Ukraine, Syria, Turkey, and learn to make the city livable together. <\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>On a gray Tuesday evening in Berlin\u2019s Neuk\u00f6lln district, the living room of the Blue House was filled with a cozy light and the murmur of diverse people. A dozen people gather around a long table: refugees, volunteers, and students practicing English. Sam Alabiad smiled engagingly at everyone around him.\u00a0 He was excited to share<\/p>\n<p><a class=\"more-link\" href=\"https:\/\/commons.princeton.edu\/migration-reporting2025\/profile-the-second-odyssey-an-eight-year-quest-for-belonging\/\">Continue Reading<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":6587,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-397","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized","post-preview"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/commons.princeton.edu\/migration-reporting2025\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/397","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/commons.princeton.edu\/migration-reporting2025\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/commons.princeton.edu\/migration-reporting2025\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/commons.princeton.edu\/migration-reporting2025\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/6587"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/commons.princeton.edu\/migration-reporting2025\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=397"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/commons.princeton.edu\/migration-reporting2025\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/397\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":401,"href":"https:\/\/commons.princeton.edu\/migration-reporting2025\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/397\/revisions\/401"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/commons.princeton.edu\/migration-reporting2025\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=397"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/commons.princeton.edu\/migration-reporting2025\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=397"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/commons.princeton.edu\/migration-reporting2025\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=397"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}